my husband told me that i 'breastfeed' my son just because i want the title badly..even though im not able to direct bf basil..i became and ep..he was totally wrong by not able to understand his wife ( deep inside-im so sad :( ) ..huhuhu ..and he claimed that most of my friends breastfeed their babies..that is y i need to cope with them..
*im not a person who always like to imitate others or easily get influenced so far....
the reason why i always said most of my friends bf theirs....because they inspired me..and challenged me indirectly..and the support we gave to each other..i can never done this without their support..
i had been wanting to bf my baby since...hurmm the day i watched desperate housewives..there is one episode that lynette's colleague..who breastfed her son(until 5 years old),lynette found that was disgusting..buttt she manage to keep fit..have a nice body and eat half dozen of donutsss..short story..the reason is ..we can burn lots of calories by breasfeeding....so tats it ..yeah im a tv series freak..but that was a good one rite..i forgive myself for tat
so during pregnancy period..i did lot of research about breastfeeding..i even printed out the list of food that can boost up milk production before i delivered...prepared the milkmaid tea and medela mini electric pump...but i was wrong by not sign up for any breastfeeding classes....turned out..antenatal class is not enough..hurmm..breastfeeding is not that easy..huhuhu...
the faith that i went through c-sect...and basil is 3.9kgs...inverted nipples..hurmm..lots of challenged..and i failed..and but thank god because there is always an emergency exit :)
man can never understand woman's feeling..that is for sure..
they dont understand how much we felt when our baby rapidly grew and only drink our milk for the first six months..no words can describe beside alhamdulillah and subhanallah..
im satisfied after all..i can never ask for more now..
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cet, sabar ye.. org laki tak bf, tu psl drg tak paham kot ;p
hebat aa ko dah dkt setahun still maintain EP, respect :)
(ko mmg not easily get influenced by others, tapi really influenced by tv series kan? kan? hikhik)
oh mancet, mesti sedih bila hubby ckp camtu kan? takpe la, tunjukkan pd dia yg ko buat semua ni bkn setakat nak dpt title.
ahaks, aku mmg ingat sgt ep Desperate Housewife tu. kwn Lynette nak kerja situ n dia ckp dia still bf anak dia. Lynette kata, dia x kesah. sekali rupanya budak tu dah besar. eventhough kwn dia bf dlm bilik dgn blind tertutup, diorg still rasa disgusting. sampaikan lynette punya jahat intro susu coklat kocak pd anak kwn dia. sudahnya kwn dia sedu sedan bila anak dah xnak bf. hehe.. aku suka ep tu.
apa2 pun,sekurang-kurangnya ur hubby x membantah kan? xpe la.. selagi ada daya, teruskan je walaupun EP.
mancet..takpela..kadang2 suami ni sengaja je taknak paham sebab die sendiri tak rase macam mane puasnye kite menyusukan anak dengan susu sendiri ni..asri pon ade gak cakap mcm tu especially bila aku mengadu sakit pinggang la..penat la..ha mula la die mencucuk suruh bagi afif FM sampai die kate takpe nanti saya bancuhkan susu setiap malam..buang mase je ngadu k..
dun worry..aku n friends sentiasa support ko..kite support each other k.
aku pun dapat rasekan yg husband aku takkan fully support aku sgt nanti. asyik2 cakap kalau bf nanti bby kecik n tak cukup tumbesaran..
aku harap aku tabah cam ko ah.. even tak directly pun, undirectly pun okehhh
oh aku pon hampir2 putus asa tuk bf aariz..time tu mmg susu gila2 merudum, daous suh topup fm, sbb tkt aariz tak cukup susu..tp biasalah, aku kan degil..my mil pon suh topup fm kalo susu tak cukup..tp aku degil jugak..aku tamo give up tgh jalan..ko inpirasi aku..jgn give up..teruskan usaha mu!!kekadang aku rasa lelaki bukan tak memahami...die risokan anak die tak cukup susu(lapar) dan tak ckp zat..tp yg sebenarnyeh ibu lebeh mengetahui..kan?
alhamdulillah daous menyokonh aku bf aariz..save duit die dari kene beli fm..
hurmm thanks for all the comments kawan2,,laki aku bukan tak support..die support sgt aku bf..mmg kasi semgt..tp die tak faham kenape aku nk breastfeed..die tak tau kenape....
hurmm thanks for all the comments kawan2,,laki aku bukan tak support..die support sgt aku bf..mmg kasi semgt..tp die tak faham kenape aku nk breastfeed..die tak tau kenape....
mancet wati ni.. ko jgn kecik hati.. husb kita2 ni mmg cam tu.. die kesiankan kat kita n anak.. aku waktu mula2 dulu pun husb aku suh fm coz die kesian tgk aku kena tahan sakit coz nipple crack n kesian aku asik kena bgn tetgh mlm bf naufal.. diorg x rasa perasaan bila kita dpt bf anak... sebab tu diorg x faham kenapa kita nak bf.. biarlah yg penting diorg support kita..
sabar k mancet..maybe dia kesiankan u penat pumping ke ape..
alolololo sabar chet... takper kot kaher interrogate lg ko ckp jek.. awak ptut bangga sdgn kegigihan saya...nengok kak zura tu , konon "superwoman" tapi takrajin pun nk breastfeed.. sombat FM sajok...hahaha...
go mancet....go mancet..
wei tol la manje.. x semudah yg disangke kan.. aku dulu pon igt pas hanan lahir, sumbat je tek ni dlm mulot die, dh bleh la bf die.. tp sangkaanku meleset.....
aku pon susah sgt nk bg hanan direct.. tp aku x setegar ko la dlm usehe mengepam.. huhu.. aku 'terpakse' campo.. vol susu dr lps pantang smp skrg same.. 1 hari plg byk bleh pam 10 ke 15 oz.. hanan lak kuat minum.. skrg dh chubby dh..
tp kalau dtg tyme tenang die, die nak latch kat tek aku.. owhhh alangkah indahnye perasaan... ase nak ambik gambo pastu frem beso2 kat dinding je... sbb xtau lepas2 tu nak ke die latch lg kat aku.. sedih kan?
eh komen aku ni terlebih menceritekan ttg diri sendiri plaks. soweii... heheheh
betui tu, maybe dia kesian kat u kot.. penat.. tido malam pun xlena, kena susu anak.. tp i rasa kita suka sume tu.. hehe
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